On 14 September, The Telegraph published Tom Cotterill’s account of how a relationship between a British solicitor and a Spanish NATO officer became entangled with “Russian spy” rumours, military administration, security restrictions and police involvement.
I was the solicitor.
I am grateful to Tom for bringing the human story into public view. I am also grateful to the readers who said that the whole thing sounded like nonsense.
That is precisely why I am challenging it.

A year ago, I was the woman inside this story, trying to understand how a private relationship between two adults had become an institutional problem.
Now the lawyer has taken over.
There are four sets of civil proceedings: two Judicial Reviews, an Equality Act claim against the Secretary of State for Defence, and Data Protection Act proceedings against the Chief Constable of Hertfordshire Constabulary.
There is also a renewed request for a criminal investigation.
Different processes. Different defendants.

One underlying question:
How did gossip about a woman become information capable of producing consequences inside British state systems?

Yes, I was born in the Soviet Union. I had remarkably little influence over that decision. My parents made it for me.
I subsequently became a Polish citizen, then a British citizen. I have lived in the United Kingdom since 2004 and qualified as a solicitor of England and Wales.
My birthplace is a historical fact. What public authorities did with that fact is a question of accountability.

1. The first Judicial Review: nearly a year, still waiting

My first Judicial Review, R (White) v Secretary of State for Defence, AC-2025-LON-003621, was filed in October 2025.
As of this update, I am still waiting for a permission decision.
There has been correspondence and procedural activity. The Ministry of Defence filed its Summary Grounds of Resistance in November 2025. But the questions that brought me to court remain unanswered.

Who authorised the individual restriction against my name?
What information justified it?
Why was I never notified?
Who reviewed its accuracy, scope and continuing necessity?

The Ministry’s pleaded position includes an acknowledgement that my December 2024 admission to Northwood was lawful and that no UK decision-maker had determined that I was a national-security threat.
Those are the Ministry’s statements in litigation. They are not findings of the High Court.
Yet a restriction concerning me existed and was enforced.
I had never applied for independent access to Northwood. I attended as a sponsored guest. My case concerns the separate adverse measure attached to my identity, its basis, and the absence of notification or an effective route to challenge it.
The state could make me visible in its systems. Getting those systems to explain what they had done has proved considerably harder.
Since October 2025, I have been waiting for the court to decide whether that challenge may proceed.

2. The Equality Act claim: another 28 days, please

My Equality Act claim asks how an origin-based narrative acquired institutional force.
My allegation is that rumours circulating in the Spanish and MARCOM environment were carried into British administrative handling without adequate verification or correction, and became capable of producing adverse treatment of me.
The Spanish and NATO material provides the alleged source environment. My claim against the Secretary of State concerns the British authorities’ own decisions and handling of that information.
It also alleges victimisation arising from the treatment of my subsequent discrimination complaints.
These allegations remain to be determined. That is what a Defence, evidence and judicial scrutiny are for.
But first, apparently, another extension.

On 2 October, the Government Legal Department asked me to agree to a further 28 days to serve the Defence. The email referred to continuing information-gathering, obtaining instructions, the complexity of the matter and the length of my Particulars of Claim.
What it did not provide was a concrete explanation of what remained outstanding, why it had not been obtained during the time already available, or what would make the next 28 days different.

My answer was one word:
No.

On 6 October, GLD sent me an application dated 5 October seeking an extension until 3 November. I filed my Second Witness Statement opposing it that same day.
The court will decide the application.
Meanwhile, the contrast remains striking. Institutions were able to act upon information concerning me before I knew what was happening. When required to explain and defend their own conduct, they repeatedly need more time.

3. The second Judicial Review: still waiting for the complaints system to be examined

The second Judicial Review is R (White) v Service Police Complaints Commissioner, AC-2026-LON-003290.
It concerns Review Wye, the statutory review of my RAF Police complaint.
My complaint concerned police conduct: what officers knew, what they told me, what legal basis they gave for their actions, and what information they passed to Hertfordshire Police.
My case is that the complaints process substantially replaced those questions with a different inquiry into whether I had a right to enter or remain at Northwood.
Review Wye accepted that two of my representations had been misunderstood, but concluded that those misunderstandings did not affect the outcomes.
One example illustrates the problem.

When I said that something was “a lie”, I was referring to what another person had told me. The investigation treated the words as an admission that I had lied.
My challenge asks whether the reviewer properly addressed the consequences of such errors, including their relationship to the subject of the complaint.
As of 8 October, this case also remains at the permission stage.
Another process. Another wait. The underlying conduct has yet to receive the judicial examination I am seeking.

4. Hertfordshire Police: the civil claim and the renewed criminal report

On 26 August 2025, I attended Northwood with my former partner to collect his belongings.
A restriction of which I had not been notified was enforced against me. The incident escalated to RAF Police and then Hertfordshire Constabulary.
Review Wye subsequently recorded the police-facing account that we were “under investigation”, alongside references to the National Security Act and concerns about seeking access dishonestly.
I dispute the accuracy of those propositions insofar as they concern me.
My Data Protection Act proceedings ask what information Hertfordshire received, its source and status, how it was checked, where it was retained or shared, and what correction or qualification is required.
The civil claim concerns the handling of my personal data.
The renewed criminal report is a separate matter.

What changed after the September headlines?

On 19 September, El Español published an account describing the use of “Red Sparrow”, or “Gorrión Rojo”, about me within the military environment.
The report attributed that account to sources. It did not identify everyone responsible or establish the chain by which such language reached British administrative or policing systems.
Nevertheless, it supplied additional material relevant to the hostile, sexualised and origin-based narrative I had already reported.
The obvious question is what happened to that narrative.

Who originated it? Who repeated it? Who knew it was circulating? Did anyone distinguish a degrading joke from information suitable for an official security assessment?
On 6 October, I asked Hertfordshire Police to reopen the investigation associated with my earlier report, crime reference 41/84346/25, and offered to provide a witness statement and indexed supporting evidence.
That is a request to reopen an investigation. I am not presenting reopening, criminal charges or findings of guilt as accomplished facts.
My request asks investigators to examine the alleged misuse of official processes and the transmission of false or materially misleading information, alongside other conduct described in my report.
It also asks a difficult institutional question.

How can Hertfordshire independently investigate the whole chain when its own officers received and acted upon information forming part of that chain, and its handling of the resulting records is already the subject of civil proceedings?

I have requested a documented, independent assessment of that overlap and consideration of an external investigative arrangement.
An officer’s personal independence does not, by itself, answer a question about the force’s institutional position.

5. The names behind the institutions

I am no longer content to leave every question addressed to an abstract “system”.
The people whose roles and knowledge I want examined include:

Admiral José Enrique Delgado Roig, in relation to the Spanish command environment, communications concerning our relationship, and the pressure described in my evidence.

Group Captain Neil A. Towers, in relation to Northwood access decisions, the separate restriction concerning me, and the British communication relied upon in the Spanish administrative chain.

Vice Admiral Mike Utley, in relation to his position as MARCOM Commander during the relevant period, the command’s knowledge of events, and its handling of concerns brought to its attention.

Their responsibilities were different. The questions concerning each must be examined separately.
Naming them does not establish that any of them committed a criminal offence. It identifies senior office-holders whose decisions, communications or institutional responsibilities require answers.
A public institution acts through people. Accountability cannot stop at the organisation’s letterhead.

6. The human story did not disappear when the legal one began

On 17 September 2025, my former partner attempted suicide.
I was left in Ministry of Defence accommodation after the ambulance took him away.
My Equality Act pleadings describe the absence of any disclosed welfare inquiry or safeguarding engagement directed towards me, despite the Ministry subsequently being notified.
That experience is part of the story. The causes and responsibility must be examined through evidence, rather than resolved by a dramatic sentence in a newspaper or a blog.
But the human cost is why these questions cannot be reduced to administrative inconvenience.
Behind the marker, the correspondence and the procedural applications was a woman living through the consequences of decisions she could neither see nor obtain an explanation for.

7. What I am asking for

I did not begin with a plan to run four civil cases and renew a criminal report.
I began by asking what had happened.
I used complaints, subject access requests, Freedom of Information requests, pre-action correspondence and court proceedings.

The central questions are still elementary:
Who decided?
What did they rely upon?
Who checked whether it was true?
Why was I not told?
Where did the information travel?
Who was responsible for correcting it?

I want the evidence tested, including apparent contradictions between accounts produced by institutions in different proceedings.
I want allegations distinguished from established facts. I want decisions attributed to the people who made them. I want the provenance of information about me examined.
The institutions concerned are entitled to contest my allegations. They are also accountable for the conduct I am challenging.

As of 8 October 2026, both Judicial Reviews remain at the permission stage. The Ministry is seeking another extension in the Equality Act claim. The Hertfordshire data-protection proceedings continue. My request to reopen the criminal investigation requires a response, including an answer about investigative independence.

I was born in the Soviet Union. I know enough about systems in which suspicion becomes an official reality while the individual cannot see the file or obtain an explanation.
I did not become a British citizen to accept that as an ordinary feature of public administration.
The woman has stepped aside.
The lawyer has taken over.
And the questions now have names attached to them.

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