It began with Russell Brand. But it ended somewhere quite different.
On Thursday, 5 November 2026, Russell Brand was convicted of rape and three counts of sexual assault.
For years, women had been trying to make themselves heard. Now, after a criminal investigation, a trial and a jury's verdict, the public was being invited to recognise their courage.
I watched the reactions with interest.
There is something profoundly disturbing about the way society sometimes discovers its compassion only after the legal system has produced a verdict.
Before that, a woman may be inconvenient. Emotional. Vindictive. Unreliable. Difficult.
"Increasingly vexatious", "nuisance", her concerns "are fanciful". I saw these words in my own legal paperwork. Yes, from the Government Legal Department as well as other institutional responses.
Afterwards, she becomes brave. She becomes a hero. But first, she needs to say in public that she was raped anally.
I am not comparing my own circumstances with the crimes for which Brand was convicted for.
I was not raped. Not physically, at least. No physical penetration has occurred. It was
worse that that, but this belongs to a different narrative at the moment.
The news prompted a question.
What happens to women who find themselves vulnerable not in the entertainment industry, but inside the military world?Women who are not serving personnel. Women who are attached to military men. Women who are married to them. Women who are not married to the military men. Women whose careers and lives become entangled with military decisions.
Women who have no rank, no commanding officer, no service number — but whose lives can nevertheless be profoundly affected by military authorities.
Who speaks for them?
That question led me to Dr Charlotte Proudman. As this was her comment, who attracted my attention as she said - women in show business environment are vulnerable.
Hence my question about the women in the military world. As in this environment men are not only exercise power and coercion. They are paid and promoted for doing this effectively.
The woman who refused to accept a complimentIn September 2015, a young barrister named Charlotte Proudman received a LinkedIn message from a senior solicitor commenting on her appearance.
He apparently thought he was being complimentary.
She thought he had crossed a professional boundary.
And instead of politely smiling, ignoring the message or quietly deleting it, she challenged him.
Publicly.
The correspondence appeared on social media. Newspapers picked it up. Suddenly, the discussion was no longer about whether one man found one woman attractive.
It was about whether a professional woman should be expected to tolerate being assessed by her appearance in a professional setting.
I rather admired that.
Not because I believe every awkward compliment is a national scandal. But because she understood something important.
Sometimes the most effective way to challenge a boundary violation is to refuse the social obligation to pretend that nothing happened.Of course, the public reaction was not uniformly supportive. Proudman faced criticism and hostility as well as praise.
Nevertheless, the underlying professional question survived the controversy.
Ten years later, her name is associated with significant work on women's rights, domestic abuse, coercive control and reform of the family justice system.
So I wrote to her.
I wondered whether she might be interested in examining my own legal challenges.
After all, I am a woman. I am a solicitor. I am a woman, whose boundaries were publicly violated. And I have spent a considerable amount of time trying to understand why institutions that can make decisions affecting my life appear so reluctant to explain them.
Perhaps there was common ground.
Then came the automated response.
How much is an answer worth?
The consultation fee was substantial.
Very substantial.
I am not going to disclose the figure. It is her commercial business, and she is entitled to price her professional services as she considers appropriate.
Nor do I resent successful lawyers charging substantial fees.
Quite the opposite.
If a lawyer can solve a problem that has resisted every conventional solution, excellent advice may be worth a great deal of money.
But I found myself asking a rather practical question.
Before I pay the price of a car for an hour of legal advice, shouldn't I establish whether it is the car I actually need?A Ferrari is a magnificent machine.
It is not necessarily the vehicle I would choose for crossing the Sahara.
So I began examining Charlotte's professional work more carefully.
And I discovered something interesting.
Her achievements are substantial. Her work on violence against women, coercive control and institutional failings deserves serious attention.
But the centre of her practice is family justice.
Mine is a different problem.
It concerns a civilian woman dragged into a personal conflict between two senior military officers and caught between military security decisions, public-law accountability, international institutional arrangements, personal-data systems and the absence of an obvious route to obtain explanations.
The question was not whether Charlotte Proudman was an excellent lawyer.
It was whether I was looking for a specialist in a field that had never quite developed around people like me.
And that took me back to the summer of 2025.
The lawyer we couldn't instructA year earlier, Laureano and I had been trying to find legal assistance.
He was a Spanish naval officer serving within NATO structures. Decisions affecting his access and position had been taken or communicated, yet we were struggling to obtain the information necessary to understand and challenge them.
We needed lawyers.
But what could we instruct them to do?
We did not have a sufficiently clear account of the allegations, the underlying evidence, the decision-making chain or the procedures available to challenge what had happened.
A lawyer can challenge a decision.
A lawyer can request disclosure.
A lawyer can test evidence.
But first, somebody must be able to identify what has happened, who is responsible and which legal framework applies.
We were confronting something more elementary.
How do you instruct a lawyer when the institutions controlling the information will not tell you precisely what you need to challenge?That was the situation as I understood it.
And it helps explain why, on 26 August 2025, I accompanied Laureano to Northwood.
I was there both as his partner and, as I understood my role, to assist him professionally.
I wanted explanations.
I wanted to know what decision had been taken, by whom, on what basis and what he was entitled to do next.
I did not know whether we would encounter a routine administrative conversation, further exclusion or police intervention.
So I asked questions.
Persistently.
Calmly, as I recall it.
And with the rather inconvenient determination of a solicitor who believes that public authorities should be able to identify the legal basis for their actions.
The encounter escalated into a confrontation with RAF Police.
I recall a female squadron leader telling me:
“I don't care if you're British or not, you have no rights here.”The sentence stayed with me.
Not because I imagined that British citizenship entitled me to enter a protected military establishment without permission. It does not.
What troubled me was the apparent suggestion that a civilian asking questions in a military environment might simply have no rights worth discussing.
Surely those are different propositions.
A person may have no right to enter a particular place.
That does not mean the person has no rights.
Visible for restrictions. Invisible for explanations.
Over the following months, I began to understand the peculiar legal architecture surrounding my position.
British, Spanish and NATO-related institutional processes had consequences for me.
There were access restrictions. Security-related descriptions. Records concerning my presence, my relationship and my place of birth.
Yet when I sought explanations, disclosure or accountability, I repeatedly encountered arguments about institutional jurisdiction, my lack of service status and the limits of the duties allegedly owed to me.
That is the paradox at the centre of my work.
I appeared to exist within the system when restrictions were imposed, but not necessarily when I sought the procedural protections needed to challenge them.To be clear, the relevant authorities dispute important aspects of my legal case. The proceedings remain contested, and different institutions have different powers and obligations.
I am not suggesting that a civilian automatically acquires every procedural right available to serving personnel.
I am asking a more fundamental question.
If a state or military institution takes action specifically affecting a civilian, what legal safeguards ensure that the civilian can understand and challenge the decision?
Who must identify the decision-maker?
Who must preserve the evidence?
Who must correct inaccurate information?
And what happens when responsibility is distributed across several institutions, each capable of explaining why the problem belongs somewhere else?
This is not simply a question about my relationship.
It is a question about the design of accountability.
The missing clientMilitary law is a recognised field.
There are lawyers who advise serving personnel, veterans, military families and people involved in service complaints or military justice.
There are also excellent public lawyers, discrimination specialists, data-protection practitioners and human-rights advocates.
I do not claim that no lawyer in Britain — or anywhere else — could have assisted me.
That would be absurd.
But I have come to suspect that there is an underserved category of people whose problems do not fit neatly into any one of those professional boxes.
Civilian women whose personal relationships bring them into contact with military institutions, and whose rights or interests are then affected by decisions they cannot readily access, understand or challenge.Some are married.
Some are not.
Some live in service accommodation.
Some are foreign nationals.
Some are British citizens.
Some are partners of personnel serving in multinational commands.
Some may be experiencing harassment, coercion, discrimination or reputational harm. Others may simply be trying to establish what decision has been taken and why.
Their legal situations will differ enormously.
But they may share one difficulty: the institution understands the serviceman's place in its hierarchy while struggling to identify the civilian woman's place in its accountability framework.
I cannot yet tell you how many women fall into this category.
I have no reliable statistics establishing the size of this unmet need.
But I find it difficult to believe that my experience is unique.
And I think the question deserves serious research.
What Charlotte Proudman taught me without giving me legal adviceThere is a temptation, when comparing ourselves with public personalities, to ask whether we are better or worse than they are.
I began with that temptation.
Charlotte had challenged sexism publicly, built a recognised professional identity and developed a specialist practice around the protection of women.
I had challenged institutional decisions, accumulated an extraordinary quantity of documents and developed a rather unusual familiarity with military administration, public law, complaints procedures and information systems.
But comparison was the wrong exercise.
The important question was not whether I could become another Charlotte Proudman.
It was whether I could build something for women whose problems did not fit the professional structures that already existed.Charlotte's work demonstrated what can happen when a lawyer identifies a persistent pattern of injustice and develops a professional response to it.
My own experience was beginning to suggest a different pattern.
And for the first time, I stopped thinking exclusively about how to resolve my own cases.
I began thinking about what I could offer somebody else.
A woman who has just been told that she has no standing.
A woman whose name appears in a security record she cannot inspect.
A woman who is afraid to challenge a military authority because the consequences for her partner may be severe.
A woman who does not know whether she needs a military lawyer, a public lawyer, a discrimination lawyer or somebody who can simply make sense of the documents.
I know how frightening that uncertainty can be.
I also know how much changes when somebody begins to understand the system.
Not because understanding guarantees victory.
But because understanding restores choices.
And choices restore control.
Three projects. Three different purposes.
That realisation has led me to develop three connected but distinct projects.
1. Visible Woman — the lawyerVisible Woman is the professional platform.
It is where I intend to develop my work on public law, human rights, institutional accountability, discrimination, personal-data accuracy and the legal consequences of security-related administrative decisions.
I want to examine how state institutions make decisions about individuals, how those decisions can be challenged and how people can recover meaningful control over their legal position.
This is not about promising that every institutional decision can be overturned.
It is about understanding the mechanisms, identifying the available remedies and making the law intelligible to the people affected.
2. The Woman the State Betrayed — the bookI have also begun a new book:
The Woman the State Betrayed.This is a different literary undertaking from
Invisible Woman: New Strategy of Resistance.
Invisible Woman remains the personal story: love, loss, relationships, institutions, journalism, satire and the extraordinary circumstances that changed my life.
The Woman the State Betrayed develops the legal and human-rights questions arising from that experience.
It asks what happens when the state's administrative machinery can affect a person without providing a clear, accessible route to accountability.
And it asks how those structural failures might be understood and challenged.
Read the introduction:
https://janinawhite.com/thewomanthestatebetrayedintroduction3. State Must Protect — the practical missionThe third project is called
State Must Protect.
Its starting proposition is simple:
A person should not have to become a lawyer to understand why the state has acted against them.I want to develop an approach that combines careful legal analysis, documentary reconstruction, procedural strategy and practical support for people navigating institutional decisions.
Especially civilian women whose lives have become entangled with military or national-security administration.
Not every problem will have a legal remedy.
Not every injustice will be provable.
And not every account of institutional wrongdoing will withstand scrutiny.
That is precisely why the work must be evidence-led, independent and professionally disciplined.
But where a viable route exists, the person affected should be helped to identify it.
One or two mattersI am now interested in exploring
one or two carefully selected matters involving civilian women affected by military or defence-related institutional decisions.
I am particularly interested in cases involving unexplained restrictions, disputed personal information, difficulties obtaining records, potential discrimination or uncertainty about the appropriate complaints and legal procedures.
I cannot promise representation, a particular outcome or immediate intervention. Any professional engagement would require a proper conflict check, assessment of competence and capacity, agreement on scope and the necessary regulatory arrangements.
But I can begin by listening, identifying the legal questions and determining whether there is a responsible way forward.
Because I remember what it was like to be on the other side.
To know that something important had happened.
To know that decisions were being made.
And not to know who would explain them.
From Invisible Woman to Visible WomanI will continue writing
Invisible Woman.
I will continue making jokes about bureaucratic absurdity, publishing my personal reflections and occasionally asking questions that powerful institutions may find uncomfortable.
That project has its own voice.
But
Visible Woman must have another.
The lawyer must be able to distinguish the evidence from the allegation, the legal argument from the emotion and the client's interests from the lawyer's personal history.
I have learned that distinction through experience.
And I want it to become the foundation of my next professional chapter.
I began this week reading about women who had spent years trying to be believed.
I ended it thinking about women who may not even know which institution they are entitled to ask.
Charlotte Proudman showed me something important about building a professional identity around a problem worth solving.
My own experience has shown me where I want to begin.
I do not want to be the woman who tells other women to be brave.I want to help them understand their position, recover their choices and take back control.That, for me, is the new strategy of resistance.
Explore the projectsThe Woman the State Betrayed —
https://janinawhite.com/thewomanthestatebetrayedintroductionInvisible Woman —
https://janinawhite.com/iwblogVisible Woman / Professional enquiries —
https://janinawhite.com/janinawhiteaboutState Must Protect. Initial enquiries can be made through my website, subject to professional screening and confidentiality arrangements.